Spiritual Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse
When you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship it’s very easy to categorize yourself as the victims of the narcissistic abuser. You feel hurt and wounded on a very deep level and want to blame the abuser for what he did to you.
However, being inside the mindset of a victim will only keep us trapped in a never-ending cycle of abuse! If you want to break free then you must learn how to empower your spirit and be victorious instead!
This is an important lesson that you can learn from Kaleah’s teachings on Spiritual Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse.
If you look at it from a spiritual perspective, there are really no victims. Everyone creates their own life experiences on some level. This is something that many people are having difficulty understanding. Why would you invite people into your lives to abuse you? We intentionally don’t want to be hurt or abused in any way, shape or form!
Sometimes we draw in abusive personalities into our lives as teachers. Our spirits use this opportunity to advance where we are and move forward to another level. Through the damaging experiences from our abusers we might learn to trust our instincts and see how we ignored particular early warning signs. We might learn to love and respect ourselves enough to say “No More!”. We might also learn to put up harder walls that can’t be broken down by the usual methods.
It can take years to learn these lessons but if you really learned them and achieve freedom from an abusive relationship then you can take away something from those experiences that can change your life in a very powerful way.
You Are Not a Victim!
The danger is that when you think of yourself as the victim and focus all your energy on what has been taken from you. If you continue to have a mindset like that then you cannot feel empowered because it means that your abuser still has the power over you! You may feel all the negative emotions from an abusive relationship and you can honor your feelings but you have to take charge of them! Allow your feelings to be the drive for you to change!
The truth is that abuse can only be healed from the inside. You have to dig deeper into yourself and face your demons in order to move beyond experiences that have left you feeling powerless.
The reason that you’re bound for a never-ending cycle of abusive relationships is because you never really learned your lessons. You’ll most likely choose to remain a victim and will unconsciously attract another abusive relationship to affirm what you really believe in.
When you are fully empowered and no longer have the victim mindset, you will not develop relationships with abusers. You will quickly head out at the first warning signs of abuse. You will love and respect yourself enough to say “I don’t deserve this!” And you’re totally right! You don’t!
It’s crucial that you forgive yourself for the choices that you’ve made and move on. Your past served you well but you can be thankful because you don’t have to live like that anymore. You are now a powerful winner instead of a helpless victim! You have taken the power back and you can now live the life you choose instead of the other way around!